Izzy Kalman
Izzy Kalman
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You can't teach tolerance with a zero-tolerance policy. It's no big deal to be tolerant of people who are nice to you. The challenge is to tolerate people who aren't so nice. On top of that, 'zero tolerance for aggression' is a logical absurdity, because it ultimately requires that we use aggression to stop it.
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There is nothing moral about punishing somebody for insulting somebody else. It's the victim who allows herself to feel insulted.
bullying encourage problem programs side victim
The problem is the victim mentality, the flip- and often-overlooked side of bullying. Most bullying programs unwittingly encourage this victim mentality.