Cathy Rindner Tempelsman
Cathy Rindner Tempelsman
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The three-year-old who lies about taking a cookie isn't really a liar after all. He simply can't control his impulses. He then convinces himself of a new truth and, eager for your approval, reports the version that he knows will make you happy.
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The child who acts unlovable is the child who most needs to be loved.
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Anytime you have a difficult encounter with your child, there is a good chance that at least one of these factors is bringing out the worst in him or her: transitions, time pressure, competition for your attention, conflicting objectives.
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Be aware that the more often a child hears the word no, the greater his need to say no himself.