Martha Beck

Martha Beck
Martha Nibley Beckis an American sociologist, life coach, best-selling author, and speaker who specializes in helping individuals and groups achieve personal and professional goals. She holds a bachelor's degree in East Asian Studies and master's and Ph.D. degrees in sociology, both from Harvard University. Beck is the daughter of deceased LDS Church scholar and apologist, Hugh Nibley. She received national attention after publication in 2005 of her best-seller, Leaving the Saints: How I Lost the Mormons and Found My Faith...
NationalityAmerican
ProfessionAuthor
Date of Birth29 November 1962
CountryUnited States of America
If you're miserable, make a choice. If you're still miserable, you can choose again.
Standards of beauty are arbitrary. Body shame exists only to the extent that our physiques don't match our own beliefs about how we should look.
When you meet people, show real appreciation, then genuine curiosity.
Any moment you spend attacking yourself is a moment away from your higher purpose and your power to love. Don't go there.
A true leader is not someone who feels fully informed but someone who continuously receives insight and guidance.
Perpetually doing, without ever tuning in to the center of our being, is the equivalent of fueling a mighty ship by tossing all its navigational equipment into the furnace.
Use anything you can think of to understand and be understood, and you'll discover the creativity that connects you with others.
Sometimes a psychic tells you something and it feels wrong and others may be right on the money. It's your choice about whom to trust, and giving that trust is something we do ourselves.
I really do think that any deep crisis is an opportunity to make your life extraordinary in some way.
To follow your life's guidance, you may have to reassign some seemingly important things to 'unimportant.' If you believe that pleasing your horrible boss or having a spotless house is a higher priority than playing with your children or sleeping off the flu, be prepared for a long and strenuous battle against destiny. Also, be prepared to lose.
We are a time-starved people, obsessed with fitting huge achievements into our few years. In the process, we often fill our buckets with things that don't matter or work. But when we give up on trying to change what can't be changed, and simply embrace what we love, a miracle occurs. We notice that the moment to be happy has already arrived. It's here, now.
Allowing children to show their guilt, show their grief, show their anger, takes the sting out of the situation.
The average adult laughs 15 times a day; the average child, more than 400 times.
Hopeful thinking can get you out of your fear zone and into your appreciation zone.