John Gray
John Gray
afraid american-author women
Just as women are afraid of receiving, men are afraid of giving.
four people problem process realized
We realized during this process that a big problem right now is that there is no institutional memory. People are here four years and then they graduate.
committee ensure knows media president senate trying vice
We also put the Senate Vice President on the Media Committee as an overseer. We were trying to ensure that Senate knows what is going on from someone impartial.
successful winning secret
If I seek to fulfill my own needs at the expense of my partner, we are sure to experience unhappiness, resentment, and conflict. The secret of forming a successful relationship is for both partners to win.
stress relief problem
A women under stress is not immediately concerned with finding solutions to her problems but rather seeks relief by expressing herself and being understood
relationship way assuming
We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us they will react and behave in certain ways - the ways we react and behave when we love someone.
unique unique-individuals individual
we are unique individuals with unique experiences
nice distance weather
always thought of myself as a loving person. But she was right. I had been a fair-weather friend. As long as she was happy and nice, I loved back. But if she was unhappy or upset, I would feel blamed and then argue or distance myself
summer spring fall
Life is filled with rhythms-day and night, hot and cold, summer and winter, spring and fall, cloudy and clear. Likewise in a relationship, men and women have their own rhythms and cycles.
relationship self feelings
A woman's sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationships.
relationship men self
A man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results.
relationship ability-to-love needs
To grow in our ability to love ourselves we need to receive love as well.
relationship men talking
Just as a man is fulfilled through working out the intricate details of solving a problem, a woman is fulfilled through talking about the details of her problems.
drawing feel-good feels
Anything that makes you feel good is always going to be drawing in more.