John Gray

John Gray
dream self decision
Our lives are more like fragmentary dreams than the enactments of conscious selves. We control very little of what we most care about; many of our most fateful decisions are made unbeknownst to ourselves. Yet we insist that mankind can achieve what we cannot: conscious mastery of its existence. This is the creed of those who have given up an irrational belief in God for an irrational faith in mankind.
relationship self feelings
A woman's sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationships.
love-you loving-you wish
You may wish to be loving - you may even try with all your might - but your love will never be pure unless you are free from resentment. When we are free from resentment, loving is effortless. When we have to try hard to love, this is generally a sign that we are repressing our resentments....
success lying
Success lies in doing not what others consider to be great but what you consider to be right.
relationship men self
A man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results.
relationship ability-to-love needs
To grow in our ability to love ourselves we need to receive love as well.
love-you kissing night
I would love you all the day, every night we would kiss and play, if with me you'd fondly stray, over the hills and far away.
relationship men talking
Just as a man is fulfilled through working out the intricate details of solving a problem, a woman is fulfilled through talking about the details of her problems.
appreciate cherish admire
That love motivates you to cooperate, respect, appreciate, cherish, and admire that person.
education money earning
As precious as knowledge itself is the learning. As precious as any reward is the earning.
giving fullness take-time
Take time off to give to yourself, in a sense to fill yourself up to fullness, to where now you can overflow in giving.
drawing feel-good feels
Anything that makes you feel good is always going to be drawing in more.
entire points second struggled
We struggled again. It was one of those nights. We only scored (seven) points the entire second half.
absolutely commitment save
There absolutely was a commitment and still is a commitment to save this collection. There absolutely was a commitment and there is a commitment to save this building.