John Gray
John Gray
men advice offers
To offer a man unsolicited advice is to presume that he doesn't know what to do or that he can't do it on his own.
relationship self feelings
A woman's sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationships.
dream self decision
Our lives are more like fragmentary dreams than the enactments of conscious selves. We control very little of what we most care about; many of our most fateful decisions are made unbeknownst to ourselves. Yet we insist that mankind can achieve what we cannot: conscious mastery of its existence. This is the creed of those who have given up an irrational belief in God for an irrational faith in mankind.
love-you support partners
Get the love you deserve and gave your partner the love and support he deserves
success lying
Success lies in doing not what others consider to be great but what you consider to be right.
support needs
Because she is afraid of not being supported, she unknowingly pushes away the support she needs.
gratitude sadness feelings
If we are to feel the positive feelings of love, happiness, trust, and gratitude, we periodically also have to feel anger, sadness, fear, and sorrow.
nice distance weather
always thought of myself as a loving person. But she was right. I had been a fair-weather friend. As long as she was happy and nice, I loved back. But if she was unhappy or upset, I would feel blamed and then argue or distance myself
memories next-day feelings
Love brings up our unresolved feelings . One day we are feeling loved , and the next day we are suddenly afraid to trust love . The painful memories of being rejected begin to surface when we are faced with trusting and accepting our partner's love .
love-you loving-you wish
You may wish to be loving - you may even try with all your might - but your love will never be pure unless you are free from resentment. When we are free from resentment, loving is effortless. When we have to try hard to love, this is generally a sign that we are repressing our resentments....
men differences able
when man and women are able to respect and accept there differences the love has a chance to blossom
summer spring fall
Life is filled with rhythms-day and night, hot and cold, summer and winter, spring and fall, cloudy and clear. Likewise in a relationship, men and women have their own rhythms and cycles.
giving fullness take-time
Take time off to give to yourself, in a sense to fill yourself up to fullness, to where now you can overflow in giving.
stress relief problem
A women under stress is not immediately concerned with finding solutions to her problems but rather seeks relief by expressing herself and being understood