Henry Cloud
Henry Cloud
Henry Cloud, PhD is an American Christian self help author. Cloud co-authored Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life in 1992 which sold two million copies and evolved into a five-part series...
NationalityAmerican
ProfessionPsychologist
CountryUnited States of America
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Closed systems run down and get more chaotic over time. Always get better by being 'open' to outside energy and templates of better ways to function.
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What happens with a lot of leaders is that their leadership style is like ADD; they are all over the place with different ideas. They could be driving one idea forward but then move on to something else too soon.
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I fell in love with the topic of leadership. For three decades, that has been a major focus of my hands-on work: listening to and working with leaders, their teams and their organizations.
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Every human being must have boundaries in order to have successful relationships or a successful performance in life.
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Part of executive functions is the ability to look to a goal deadline and assess where an organization is in meeting it.
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When you encourage someone, it literally changes their brain chemistry to be able to perform... sends fuel to the brain.
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A good test of a relationship is how a person responds to the word 'no.' Love respects 'no,' control does not.
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Boundaries are basically about providing structure, and structure is essential in building anything that thrives.
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The mature person meets the demands of life, while the immature person demands that life meet her demands.
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True intimacy is only build around the freedom to disagree.
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Independence is not an option for us. Remember, God existed without us.
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God's solution for "I can't live that way anymore" is basically, "Good! Don't live that way anymore. Set firm limits against evil behavior that are designed to promote change and redemption. Get the love and support you need from other places to take the kind of stance that I do to help redeem relationship. Suffer long, but suffer in the right way." And when done God's way, chances are much better for redemption.
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Successful people stick to what they are good at and find ways to make that larger.
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Confronting an irresponsible person is not painful to him; only consequences are.